Finding Love Before Christmas: My Journey & Yours!

As the holidays approach, I can’t help but think about love. There’s something about this season, the lights, the music, the gatherings, that makes connection feel even more meaningful. And yet, there’s also a little ache: the wish to share it all with someone special. This year, I’ve set an intention: to open myself to the possibility of finding love before Christmas. Not in a desperate way, but in a hopeful, intentional way.

Because why not?

The season is already filled with magic, and love is the most magical thing of all.

Why Now?

The end of the year naturally makes us reflect. For me, it’s not just about closing 2025, it’s about stepping into the new year with more love, joy, and connection. And I know I’m not the only one. The holidays stir something in all of us, a reminder that life is sweeter when shared. 

My Approach (and Tips for You Too)

• Say Yes to Invitations: From holiday markets to office parties, this is the season of gatherings. Showing up is half the magic.

• Refresh Your Dating Energy: Whether it’s apps or real-life encounters, try approaching with openness instead of pressure.

• Create Cozy Moments: Love often blossoms in warm, intentional spaces, like a quiet evening with candlelight. 

What I Hope For Honestly?

I hope to find someone to laugh with while gift shopping, to share a midnight kiss under twinkling lights, or simply to experience a new connection. And if you’re on this journey too, know this: it only takes one moment, one smile, one brave “yes” to change everything. Whether love arrives before Christmas or takes its time, light a candle, pour some cocoa, and keep your heart open, you never know what magic might find you. 

Until our next heart-to-heart,

MEL KALAS